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THE CHOICE OF PURSUITS.--Duty of Preparation for some Useful
Occupation. This should be made in Childhood. The part Par-
ents should take in this: Duty of all Persons to engage in some
Useful Pursuit shown from the Relation of the Individual to the
State, from the Possibility of Future Misfortune, from the Excess-
ive Prodigality of those who have been brought up in Idleness.
Law of the Athenians. What Parents should consider in their se-
lection of an Occupation for their Children. Injudicious Course of

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CHAPTER XXIII.

MATCH-MAKING.-Section I.: The Relation of Parents to the Mar-

riage Choice of their Children.-The Bridal Hour. A Home-Crisis.

The Bride's Farewell. Have Parents a right to take any part in

the Marriage Choice of their Children? This Right Proven from

their Relation to their Children, from the Inexperience of Children,

from Sacred History. The Patriarchal Age. Judaism. The Chris-

tian Church. The Extent of this Right. The Duties it Involves.

Moral Control. Coercive Measures. Improper Parental Interposi-

tion. Its Sad Effects. Persuasive Measures. Should Parents Ban-

ish and Disinherit Children for their Marrying against their will?

Paley,

Section 11: False Tests in the Selection of a Companion. The Mere
Outward. How we determine Unhappy Matches. The Manner
of Paying Addresses. The Habit of Match-Making. Tricks of
Match-Makers. The Sad Fruits. Book Match-Makers. Their
Auxiliaries. The Evil. How Parents may Preserve their Chil-
dren. False Influences. Smitten. Outward Beauty. Impulsive
Passion. Falling in Love at First Sight. Wealth. Rank. English
Aristocracy. Nepotism. Snobbishness,

Section III: True Tests in the Selection of a Companion.-Judicious

Views of the Nature and Responsibilities of the Marriage Institu-

tion. Our Forefathers. Reciprocal Affection. Paley. True Love.

Adaptation of Character and Position. Fitness of Circumstances,

Means, and Age. Religious Equality and Adaptation. Only in the

Lord. The Sad Effect of Inequality. Should Persons Marry Out-

side of their Own Branch of the Church? Sin and Curse of Dis-

obedience to the Law of Religious Equality. Duty of Parents in

reference to Religious Equality. All Matches not made in Heaven.

Law of Moses. Abraham. Historical Instances of the Fruits of

Disobeying this Law. Reasonableness of the Law. The Primitive

Christians. Sense of the Christian Church. Address to Christians, 281

CHAPTER XXIV.

THE CHILDREN'S PATRIMONY.-The Question this Involves. Not

Confined to Wealth. A Good Character and Occupation. True

Religion. How Parents should proceed in the Distribution of their

Property. Why they should give only a Competency. The Rules

to Determine a Competence. Paley. What the Law of Compe-

tence Forbids. Penalties of its Violation. History. Impartiality.

Paley. The Infatuation of many Parents,

THE PROMISES OF THE CHRISTIAN HOME.-Two Kinds. Divine
Promises to Parents and Children. Those of Punishment. Law

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CHAPTER I.

WHAT IS THE CHRISTIAN HOME?

SECTION I.

HOME IN THE SPHERE OF NATURE.

"My home! the spirit of its love is breathing
In
every wind that plays across my track,
From its white walls the very tendrils wreathing
Seem with soft links to draw the wanderer back.
There am I loved-there prayed for !-there my mother
Sits by the hearth with meekly thoughtful eye,
There my young sisters watch to greet their brother;

Soon their glad footsteps down the path will fly!
And what is home? and where, but with the loving?

HOME! That name touches every fibre of the soul, and strikes every chord of the human heart as with angelic fingers. Nothing but death can break its spell.. What tender associations are linked with home! What pleasing images and deep emotions it awakens! It calls' up the fondest memories of life, and opens in our nature

the purest, deepest, richest gush of consecrated thought and feeling.

"Home! 'tis a blessed name! And they who rove,
Careless or scornful of its pleasant bonds,

Nor gather round them those linked soul to soul
By nature's fondest ties,

But dream they're happy!"'

But what is home,-home in the sphere of nature? It is not simply an ideal which feeds the fancy, nor the flimsy emotion of a sentimental heart. We should seek for its meaning, not in the flowery vales of imagination, but amid the sober realities of thought and of faith.

Home is not the mere dwelling place of our parents, and the theater upon which we played the part of merry childhood. It is not simply a habitation. This would identify it with the lion's lair and the eagle's nest. It is not the mere mechanical juxtaposition of so many human beings, herding together like animals in the den or stall. It is not mere conventionalism;-a human association made up of the nursery, the parlor, the outward of domestic life, resting upon some evanescent passion, some sensual impression and policy. These do not make up the idea of home.

Home is a divine institution, coeval and congenital with man. The first home was in Eden; the last home will be in Heaven. It is the first form of society, a little commonwealth in which we first lose our individualism and come to the consciousness of our relation to others. Thus it is the

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